I saw my midwife, Gretchen, last Wednesday (the day before Thanksgiving). She checked my cervix and said it was
very soft and that I was 60% effaced. Dilation was 1+ cm. Then she said she was concerned by this and that this baby might be coming right away. Rob said my face went very pale at that point and I think she saw that too because she suddenly became very reassuring and told me that she's sure everything is going to be great. I feel mostly calm now, trying to not be freaked out. :P She said she'd like to see me make it at least another 2 week.
We talked to her about our birth plan, I feel really excited and positive about the hospital's policies and the how supportive she is of our desires. Gretchen is going to be with us for pretty much the time I am laboring and delivering our little Sweet Pea so she's going to be doing all of the exams, as well as be our advocate with the hospital staff (some of the perks of having a midwife). On top of that Gretchen said that the hospital a really great staff that are open-minded and supportive of "prepared" births and that some of our wishes are basically standard
procedure (
ie. waiting until the cord has stopped pulsing to cut it). Because of the hospital and Gretchen, we feel that we can really
simplify and pare down our birth plan.
These are some of the things we feel need to be on the birth plan:
Labor:
• Inform/ask our consent prior to ANY
procedures/interventions, especially but not limited to
episiotomy.
• Mobile baby monitoring when required ("T" monitor....what's it called? I forgot) :P
Delivery/Post Birth:
• Immediate skin-to-skin contact between myself and the baby- no weighing/measuring/washing/testing etc. until baby has a chance to nurse
• Rob to cut umbilical cord (after pulsing stops)
• Reserve the right to waive Hep B vac/
Vit K/Eye goop/etc.
• Rob be with the baby at all times if the baby needs to be taken anywhere
• Rob to wash the baby